MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

• Think of your bio like a two-way job interview that you get to tailor to perfection

  Let's start at the beginning: the header! Having a captivating header is the first way to draw people in. It shouldn't be too blunt or ... For detail, click here.

• Why I don't show cleavage in my profile pictures or almost ever...

  Most days I wonder if I'm typical or an oddity on dating sites. I want someone to READ my profile, look at my picture, and ... For detail, click here.

• Never try to convince someone to be with you should they not like you for it.

  Your attitude and mindset with this is key. This doesn't define who you are, but only you can do that. This is more of an ... For detail, click here.

• Guys, your shirtless picture may affect the first impression others develop of you

  Guys, I get it. You worked hard to get the pecs, abs, whatever, that you have. You’re proud of this effort. And maybe you choose ... For detail, click here.

• Men are extremely visual and often make a decision based primarily on the photos that you use

  Photos that are current, reveal different aspects about your environment or personality and showcase different styles of dress or daily activities that tell the story ... For detail, click here.

• When you first contact women (from woman's perspective)

  I think most of us women will agree that there nothing more distracting when you talking on line with someone for the first time than ... For detail, click here.

• When is the best time to date offline?

  Picture this. You have great chemistry from the stroke of your keyboard. You have fun emailing and sending instant messages to each other. He thinks ... For detail, click here.

• Ways on how to over come being shy

  I find for some the biggest obstacles to get over is being shy. So shy to the point of canceling the first date. How to ... For detail, click here.

• Think before something bad happens

  Always, always trust your first instincts! Upon first meeting, make it in a public place at a busy time of day. Look at this person, ... For detail, click here.

• Take time to get to know your date before you unveil

  I am currently in a relationship that has lasted for about nine months. Before we actually saw each other, we talked on the phone for ... For detail, click here.